Gen-X workers have long suffered a career version of middle child syndrome – a condition that has only worsened since our forebears broke the implied work-world contract. Let’s just say it. Boomers were supposed to retire and relinquish the keys to the corporate...

Tim Toterhi, CHRO
(Toe-Ter-Rye)
Tim has over 20 years of management experience in the Americas, Europe, and Asia. He’s been quoted in publications such as Fast Company, Forbes, Fox Business News, and the HuffPost as well as profiled in the book, Magnificent Leadership.
The Bias Within HR: Job Hunters Beware
Dear HR, For the purpose of this employment application, I/we/they currently identify as a biracial, two-spirited, flexibly-oriented, ambidextrous American who is currently questioning my/our pronouns. Why the disclaimer? Because you would sooner find a Muslim...
Dear Tech Community
Want to benefit humanity? Instead of dreaming up another AI recruiting tool or “guaranteed” lead generator, try sorting a method for charging postage on all external emails. Nothing crazy, maybe a penny a message*, with all revenue going toward children’s charities....
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New Novel Released!
I'm happy to announce that my new novel, Life Aches: In and Out of the Fishbowl, is available. Sometimes it takes a little magic to mend a broken heart. Thomas Fenelli used to be a winner. Then he hit bottom and kept digging. His best friend’s a fish. His brother’s a...
Beware the Red Pen
Dear Editor, Thanks for your notes. I understand you'd like the book to demonstrate more "inclusiveness," so I've reluctantly accepted your "suggestions." All characters are now gay, except for Gianna, who is bisexual, and Vinny, who is questioning his non-binary...
The No Bull Commencement Address
I’ve never been asked to give a college commencement speech. Admittedly, this makes sense. Though a successful person by some measures, I’m not a movie star or professional athlete. I’m not a social justice warrior who identifies as a fruit bat. I didn’t transform a...
The Worst Wingman
Never ask your married friends for dating advice. We know nothing. Just because we managed to convince another human to say “I do” does not mean we have any romantic superpowers. We don’t. Seriously, not a one. This is especially true for guys. Despite our euphemistic...
Immigration is Climate Change
I’ve always been a peacemaker. A lifetime of personal unease has taught me to value security and appreciate a sense of quiet calm. While I love a robust intellectual debate, I detest bullies, bravado, and the emotional injuries that come from interpersonal conflict....
How to Talk to Friends About Money
A funny thing happens when you become an author: People ask your advice. While the primary topic is writing and, given my day job, career management, the subjects have a surprising span. Over the years, readers have asked about love, politics, health, family life,...